pshufd's reply above is just what I'd do, too.
BUT...
Unless the OP took care to DISABLE the "startup security" settings previously (you have to boot to recovery to access these), this probably won't work. The t2 chip will prevent you from booting "externally".
That's why I recommend to all Mac owners to DISABLE all "startup security" features, at least if they want their Mac to be "easier to get at" in a "moment of need"...
OP:
The "?" is telling you that the Mac can't find a "bootable copy" of the OS, from which to boot.
Have you tried booting to internet recovery? (command-OPTION-R)
And then, perhaps re-installing the OS?