I understand that you're frustrated. I would be too if I had spent $1300 (card and monitor) for something that didn't work.
It's possible, but unlikely that something is wrong with the monitor or with the card.
To test the monitor:
-hook it up to another computer. That will require an adapter at the end of the cable that plugs into the computer. After you plug it in, you may need to adjust the contrast and brightness.
To test the video card:
-attach a different monitor to the card.
It's more likely that the monitor just needs to be calibrated. The setting for that is in System Preferences -> Display -> Color. Click on the calibrate button.
I'm not a big fan of Apple's calibrate program. Who thought it was user friend to say "don't look directly at the image, squint your eyes, and adjust the slider until you can sort of see the image but not really"? Sorry, i've gone off topic. Perhaps other people can suggest a better setup program.