ive never done this with a flash drive but it has worked on an external firewire drive (and even an iPod mini) find a windows machine and format it on the windows machine i have done FAT32 and im pretty sure NTFS will work as well. if you format it on a mac you have to pay for a program on windows to read it. mac is smarter and can read windows format for free. as for the problem with changing files from a mac, make sure the premisions are set properly on the file you are looking at (group and other should have read and write access)