Found the perfect method
i had been looking for a way to control Apps within my IPad using my IPhone, and it seemed that a lot of people were trying to do the same thing.
After a lot of trial and error I have finally a great and very easy to use way of doing this.
Control IPad with IPhone/IPod:
Both devices must be jailbroken in order for this to work
Step 1: install 'IPod Remote Controller' on The IPhone/IPod (available from Xsellize Repo)
Step 2: install 'Iteleport: VNC' on IPhone/IPod, this is available from the AppStore... Or somewhere else...
Step 3: install 'Veency' on IPad, from Cydia
Step 4: install 'Ipod Remote Server' on (BigBoss Repo)
Enable both Veency and IPod remote in IPad settings.
Step 5: open 'Ipod Remote Controller' on IPhone/IPod and choose the IPad
Once a connection has been established the Ipad's music player should pop up on the IPhone, this allows you to control music on the IPad with the IPhone
There will be a small 'V' icon, clicking on this will alow you to have the the IPad's interface on the click on Launch VNC then Connect then Accept on the pop up on the IPad
All of this can be done by using Bluetooth to Bluetooth between the 2 IOS devices so make sure Bluetooth is active on both.
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Samir