make sure you have conversation awareness turned off, it turns noise canceling down if it hears you talking to someone. It also turns it down when you hum along to a song, clear your throat, the wind blows, someone talks within 10 feet of you. (meaning, it's always turning it off, and seems like most people find it more annoying than useful)
also make sure you're not in adaptive mode, which also tries to figure out what you want to be able to hear from the outside world and will let in various amounts of outside noise, and it's usually wrong (at least for me)
I have mine setup to toggle between noise cancelling and transparency when I click the stem, and will just manually switch to transparency when I want to talk to someone. Although I'm still kinda in the habit of taking one out when I'm talking face to face with someone, as it pauses the music, and seems a bit less rude than having both in.
transparency mode will pull in some of the outside noise and amplify it into your ears. letting you hear outside sounds over your music.
There is an "off" setting that is now hidden by default. Off mode just disables noise canceling, letting any outside sound that leaks in be heard. it's less useful than transparency, as any outside sounds you might be trying to hear will still be reduced by the
you can also ask siri to "turn on noise cancellation" "turn on adaptive mode" or "turn on transparency" to switch between the modes.
to access any of the following settings, with your AirPods connected to your phone (easiest just to put at least one pod in your ear), go into the main settings app on your phone, and you'll see an AirPods entry.
- The toggle for conversation awareness
- the noise cancelling modes it toggles between when squeezing the stem
- if the off mode is shown
- adjustment for how much external noise to let in when using adaptive mode.