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Davy.Shalom

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Dec 23, 2008
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Gah!! Help me please, this girl I know won't stop talking to me! She texts me, calls me, IMs me, emails me, and writes on my facebook wall. I don't want to just ignore her cos that may hurt her, but how do I tell her to stop?
 
Gah!! Help me please, this girl I know won't stop talking to me! She texts me, calls me, IMs me, emails me, and writes on my facebook wall. I don't want to just ignore her cos that may hurt her, but how do I tell her to stop?

Just tell her you are more interested in her sister. That will solve a lot of problems.
 
Don't get rid of her completely unless she is psychotic and you hate her family.

If she isn't a friend with benefits, tell her she is freaking you out and being clingy and you just want he to slow it down to a more normal level.

Something that seems crazy now might seem like a missed opportunity in 10 years.
 
You can be polite but still be firm.. just explain as neutrally as possible that you don't mind her being in touch but to back off a bit. Let her know (if this is the case, that is) that you view her as a friend... not anything else.
 
May sound a little immature, but ask her if she can hook you up with her brother. A more mature way that doesn't involve pretending your gay (and hoping her brother isn't either) is sitting down, talking to her, and tell her that you aren't interested.
 
You could try the George Castanza (Seinfeld) approach and tell her that you want to have sex with her and one of her girlfriends (or sister) at the same time. Although, that might attract her even more if she is into that, as George discovered when he tried it. Or, as a variation, tell her you want her to have sex with you and your best male friend at the same time (though that might backfire too, since she may like that even better than a threesome with her girlfriend). Lastly, you could tell her you have a venereal disease, but she would probably then tell everyone else about it and you would be out of luck with the other ladies.
 
I'm failing to see the problem with this situation :p

You must be fairly young...high school freshman? If you're sure you're not interested, just sit her down and tell her that. More people get mindf***ed over misunderstandings than actual problems. Don't give things time to get worse than they are.
 
Is she hot/interested in you more than just a friend?

1. Ask her if she would ever date a man who has killed a man.
2. Tell her that you have an AIDS meeting, and can't respond to her texts.
3. "Accidently" get a new number, but that won't last for long since she has your Facebook.
 
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