I dont like iphoto b/c it makes you d'led every single image...is there a program that doesnt do that for pics? I like the pc's interface better where you can just go directly to the camera folder and drag pics.
Open Image Capture, press "Cmd+," to open the prefences menu. There should be a preference there to idicate what to do when a camera is attached (open iPhoto, Image Capture, or nothing).
And yes, it is silly to have this in image capture but not iPhoto).
I don't bother with cabling up to the camera at all. A $15 flash card reader for the Mac, and pop the memory card into the reader, it shows up just like a drive. Way faster.