Guys I have an example happend to me a couple of months ago.
I bought a used iBook G3 700Mhz 640MB ram etc. for $750.00 from a great guy over eBay.
The Apple shipped via USPS Express Mail for $60 (with insurance of course) from NY to Greece (where I live) , Greece is a European Union member since 82'.
Anyway I DIDN'T paid anything for customs, the original box that still has the stickers on it, writes that is NOT merchantise item, but a GIFT from an Individual to an individual.
After I bought this great iBook, I bought from Singapore (on eBay,from a Store) a Seiko Kinetic Auto relay watch , it's cost was $255.00.
The shipping option was only FedEX, so I paid $40.00 (insurance included) (and GIFT Marked on invoice) to come to me.
.......I saw on online tracking site that the item was "on hold" status in Athens Greece from FedEX and from customs.
I called them and they said to me that I had to pay another 180 Euros to take it off the customs and delivered to me.
After a heavy argument with those f_ckers, i declined the recievement cause I though that the delivery was under my company's name address and that's why I had to pay the extra custom fees......
After sending the item back to Singapore then seller and me decided to resent the same item to another address to an individual (my grandmother's home address), ad also marked as GIFT....
Same sh_t happend, finaly I paid 172Euros to get the watch wich the cost of it here is about 600Euros so won about 250 Euros than buying it from here......
The CEO of FedEX Greece and the director of customs told me that FedEX in Greece and maybe in the rest of the E.U countries uses it's own customs, so every item comes outside E.U shipping with FedEX HAS to pay fees for items above 35Euros price(insane) .
USPS customs for E.U are in Germany to any item is coming inside E.U from the rest of the world.
So , the conclusion is to me that I ONLY will ship via USPS , and I'll let the f_ucking FedEX rot in hell with it's own justice and fees.
No more FedEX to me, USPS is the way.
I haven't tried UPS so far but I believe will be like USPS (I hope).
I hope this example to help some people here when they will be in time to decide which "service" to use buying from eBay or elsewhere.
LaterZzz friends.
VAG