i have a pair of these and some of the rubber under the headphones and around the jack are tearing, is there any where that fixes this stuff that anyone knows of?
Rubber tearing could be more than cosmetic damage, as it exposes the wires and leaves you in danger of further damage. It's worth calling Apple and asking what they can do for you. If they don't have any solutions, you could always get some electrical tape and wind it around the cable a few times to at least prevent further tearing.