No it's the opposite, facetimebff dot com doesn't randomly 'chatroulette' you with people like other 'facetime' sites, and i've tried most of them. It's like facebook meets twitter, you message other users within the site and only give out your facetime details when youre comfortable, very simple. The site limits how much you can say to other users and write in your profile to try encourage you to "save it for facetime" (as they like to put it) and get you facetiming quicker. I've been using it for a few days now and can say it's a pleasure to use, nice functionality, visuals and good variety of people to facetime with, did I mention 30% of users are female! Ftfun users will appreciate that

Seems like new users keep joining daily, so it will be a great size community in a few months.
Definitely recommend everyone tries it.