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I'd really like it if when I get a SMS alert it doesn't show a notifcation on the lockscreen. Possible?

You can use BiteSMS, or if you want to stick with the stock Messages app, go to Cydia and get PopUp Blocker. It'll block any pop ups you want, and it's only a buck.
 
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