The correct way to puwer the system on, without a power button is to locate the power jumpers:
There are a pair of jumpers on the mainboard, that you need to bridge to start the system without the top cover. These are left of the centre horizontally, and near the centre vertically, on the mainboard, near the PMU reset. There are two pads, labled PWR_BTN. Bridge these with a copper wire, by touching one end of the copper wire to each pad, to start up the system.
The two jumpers have a horizontal, white line, separating them.
Please report on what happens when you bridge this connection, including any chimes, fan noise, screen illuminations, HDD spinning, flashing lights, or lack of any of these. Please note if the sleep light comes on when you start the system, and if it stays on, or dims. Please also report if the capslock light illuminates, by pressing the caps key when the unit is 'on'.
Tell me if the system makes any beeps or chimes, and if so, how many.
Does the KB backlight engage?
PC2-4200 is what the data sheet calls for, vs. PC2-5300. I have no way to tell what DIMM the OP is trying to use, but I would urge the use of correct memory if possible, to help thin out possible problems in a diagnostic flowchart.
The ALS is on on above the DC board, so you may want to try covering the light sensor with a piece of electrical tape for the present.