just set up my ichat to work with my gmail account using jabber. when I've added a new buddy, it temporarily shows up (10 seconds) then disappears. They never show up on any list. They only way I can find them is to always click New Chat and type in their handle. Anyone know what's going on? He doesn't show up as being off line or a buddy in the jabber list. He's using his blackberry, would that make a difference?