How do I disable them. We have two in our bedroom. If I inadvertently touch them music blasts at 3 am. I know this is an easy fix. ALso I don't see a consistent cntrol on my iPhone. Sometimes apple music comes up. Sometimes it doesn't. Or am I looking for the wrong thing? I open the Music app on my phone and it shows nothing. Sometimes, ararely it does. I have two stereo systems, mini pair in the bedroom and homepod in the living room. Maybe it's getting confused between the two?