I just got a Dell u3223qe.
I have calibrated the display, which oddly did not really need to as the before and after profiles were minimal in difference.
Having a look at the UI on the MacBook Pro M2 Max and the Dell, they seem similar but not indentical. Trying to take a photo of the screen with a phone which automatically decides what colour things should be is not helpful either.
Prior to calibration the whites seemed slightly off and the contrast between the two was also off. The Dell was certainly lacking contrast. Which in itself is not that bad a thing.
After calibration.
When looking at a photo of the screen, the white point is pretty similar, but again not the same. The whole screen has a slight tint, really slight tint, of yellow and lack of contrast.
In person the MacBook Pros screen is way to contrast biased.
The Dell is more like paper.
This maybe due to the Matte screen on the dell?
Blacks are similar
Contrast is similar
Sharpness is similar.
Colour is similar.
I have changed some settings on the Dell to help the match.
Brightness is at 52%
Contrast is at 99%
Sharpness is at 70%
Custom colour - 99% 97% 100%
Yours may differ after calibration.
RGB colour
USB-c prioritisation - High Resolution
Colour profile on Mac - either my calibrated one or the default which has even more contrast.
HDR is off on Mac as it causes flicker when turned on.
I hope this helps?