drunk college chick... I got a phone number... hmmm

[GD0X]

So I'm a first semester freshmen, went to my first frat party last night... Fantastic time haha. Anyways, I started dancing/making out with some chick on the dance floor. before she left, she gave me her number. Luckily her friend coincidentally lives in the same building and floor as mine so i came over post frat party and we hooked up again.

But I'm wondering, should i text her back or anything, or this just a random drunk girl/party thing? Im not looking for a relationship, just hook up, but is there any etiquette towards this matter?

 

[eternlgladiator]

frat party huh. I remember those days. I'd do exactly what you want and leave it at that. If you're not interested don't be, if you are get in touch.

 

[Hellhammer]

If it was just dance floor stuff and nothing deeper or more serious, just leave it at that. Then again, it probably doesn't hurt to text her so it's your call. I never do that, though.

 

[renewed]

Shoot her a quick text mentioning something funny from the night before. See what she does. It's hit or miss. She may regret what she did and ignore you or she may like you but think you think she is easy and ignore you. She may be relaxed and text you back. You never know.

Drunk chicks you make out with at a frat party don't usually turn in to anything but a one night stand and maybe a future party makeout. Doesn't hurt to see though.

 

[leftywamumonkey]

So I'm a first semester freshmen, went to my first frat party last night... Fantastic time haha. Anyways, I started dancing/making out with some chick on the dance floor. before she left, she gave me her number. Luckily her friend coincidentally lives in the same building and floor as mine so i came over post frat party and we hooked up again.

But I'm wondering, should i text her back or anything, or this just a random drunk girl/party thing? Im not looking for a relationship, just hook up, but is there any etiquette towards this matter?

Now, by "hooked up" do you mean...

 

[GD0X]

true true, not to say I'm attached by any means... but 2 things now.
1. when do drunks give out their numbers?
2. as a statement- possible future hook up buddy since we have connections on the same floor, literally about 200 feet away.

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Now, by "hooked up" do you mean...

make out, and exchange of the hands haha.

 

[ashman70]

1. When they are obviously not drunk enough to be able to do so.


I say go for it, what have you got to lose?

 

[sou1 so1di3r]

1. When they are obviously not drunk enough to be able to do so.


I say go for it, what have you got to lose?

yeah seriously

unless she is crazy

 

[thekev]

true true, not to say I'm attached by any means... but
1. when do drunks give out their numbers?

Depends on the girl, but quite possibly all the time.

2. as a statement- possible future hook up buddy since we have connections on the same floor, literally about 200 feet away.

Don't over think the situation. The other person may not even remember giving you their number.

 

[MacNut]

Don't over think the situation. The other person may not even remember giving you their number.

Ya if she was cocked off her ass she could have given her number to a house plant and not remembered the next day.

 

[renewed]

Depends on the girl, but quite possibly all the time.

Exactly. I've spoken with my girl friends before and they do it sometimes simply to get the guy to leave them alone. Then they never answer or text back. Women hate confrontation with guys they just meet and giving you their number and walking away makes the guy feel like he closed and the woman feel like she can walk away and be left alone. She neglects to foresee him texting and blowing up her phone for the next week.

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I want to add. This may sound unconventional but the best way to avoid this question is to give the girl your number and not get hers. If you made a lasting impression she will contact you, especially with modern girls calling or texting a guy is no big deal. If she doesn't then no sweat off your back but if she does you know you're in and she made the first move.

Some people will argue the man should get the number etc but that's traditional and frankly overplayed and outdated. Leave the ball in her court. It'll throw her off guard, show her you aren't desperate and allow her to be in control. Women love thinking they are in control.

 

[DotCom2]

If you're not looking for a relationship, then let it be.
Maybe she is and then you'd be getting yourself messy.
What if she ends up being a stalker or some weirdo chick.
Let it go and just stick to dance florr stuff. LOL

 

[Charcoalwerks]

I think it's good to have a girlfriend during school for support, sex, and companionship and all that jazz. Good to get that taken care of early in the semester. One less thing to stress.

 

[thekev]

If you're not looking for a relationship, then let it be.
Maybe she is and then you'd be getting yourself messy.
What if she ends up being a stalker or some weirdo chick.
Let it go and just stick to dance florr stuff. LOL

In what way would making out with a chick while dancing be a good lead in to a relationship ? Like I said, it's stupid to over think stuff like this. You'll just add meaning and nuance to the situation where none exists.

 

[snberk103]

You're assuming of course that she hasn't a) given you the wrong number on purpose... either as a prank or keep you from calling, or b) given you the wrong number because she was drunk and got it wrong....

 

[renewed]

You're assuming of course that she hasn't a) given you the wrong number on purpose... either as a prank or keep you from calling, or b) given you the wrong number because she was drunk and got it wrong....

Or that while he is on an internet forum asking us questions she isn't out banging a few actives back at the frat house.

 

[GD0X]

lmao. it is her phone number... its been tested and everything haha. Ive been txting... though she gives me one word answers so i pretty much gave up txting her today. still ******** from yesterday/this morning i suppose. I suppose if she doesn't txt later, nothing to this.