Forgive me.. selfie stick/tripod recommendation ?

[Guacamole]

I'm looking for a selfie stick and tripod . it's not for selfies.. I repeat , not for selfies? I need it more for angles and tripod. Lightweight , any recommendations , one that the bluetooth won't let. me down .
I don't trust the amazon reviews

 

[MAGSAFEMATE]

DJI OM5, little bit expensive but worked really well.