OP:
You sound as if you are the "tech support/administrator" for your dad, is this assumption correct?
If so, I'd suggest you do this:
First, it will hurt nothing and not interfere with anything your father does on the Mac.
Once you get his password restored, so that he can boot and get to the finder, go to "users & groups" and create a NEW administrative account. Give it a name and a password that YOU will remember. MAKE SURE you give this account administrative powers.
You don't really need to set this up beyond having a username and password.
Now, if he gets in trouble again with almost anything, you can reboot into the "alternate" account and work on things from there. The rest of the time this account will just be there, not used, and not interfering with anything else.