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I am not going to read that entire thread so you will probably get a lot of redundant help here.

Anyway, have you done a Hard Disk repair with Disk Utilities via the OS X DVD that came with the machine? But I'd back up what you have found.
 
sounds like you jst logged in a different account, goto preference->accounts panel, see if you checked automatically logged into account "User"
 
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