Sorry for not returning earlier haha. Not sure why I have so many issues with mine compared to most people. Ive tried so many solutions and have literally rebuild my network 3 times from the ground up now with different wireless settings to try to fix the problem. I've reset them countless times and have updated them, etc...I've also found a few reddit posts that describe people having the same problems I have regarding the phillips bulbs and home kit support. Same deal, works fine with every iOS device but the HomePods.
Not sure what to do at this point. Guess I'll call support again and see what they say. I wanted to love these things but I just have too many issues for something that should "just work". Makes me wish I invested in a better TV setup and just use my ATV for music streaming as well.
Also currently they won't EVEN PLAY MUSIC. I can airplay to them fine, but if I ask them to play music directly it will play for a few seconds and then stop (and then randomly start blasting music minutes or hours later). Literally unusable. So I went from airplay and home kit not working to direct apple music streaming failing. This is the kind of inconsistency and half-baked software I'm dealing with.
All devices are on a 2.4ghz network within 20 feet of a powerful modern router with all the setting optimized. All other devices on the network perform flawlessly. I'm decent when it comes to technology and troubleshooting but these things just WON'T work properly, and even the problems themselves aren't consistent. Reminds me of the terrible experience iOS11 was on release.
Edit:
link to Apple community thread on the music pausing issue:
https://discussions.apple.com/thread/8338707?page=6