Thanks guys but still i am confused:
1- Candy bar: looks good but a trialware...i hate trying things that i know i am not willing to pay aterwards.
2- The apple site link is just telling me how to copy the icon of one folder and paste it to another...what i would like is changing an icon by accsessing an icon library and not copying on to another...i.e i do not see the point to copy my HD icon on the idisk icon for example. i would rather access o a libraiiry with several icon i can chose. i.e music instruments for my music folder, etc...is there an icon ist hidden somewhere?