I am still fuming right now. This just pisses me right off like you wouldnt believe. There's nothing more rude than people who don't return favours when you two originally agreed on from the start and keep their end of the bargain.
They come to you (since I rarely ask people of favours), literally begging you for a favour...and to drop everything you have going on in that moment to do them a favour because its so urgent!!! It cant wait a whole day! Puhleez! You say you can do it, but not today, cause you just cant...how about tommorow. Then they pout and whine like a big phoney literally begging you to do everything you can to do them this favour when they want you to. They sound so desperate, they blab on about all this utter BS and how they will return the favour with this the next day etc.
So you take the time to accomodate their needs into your schedule and rearrange your schedule the next day to help them out, cause you trust them to at the very least follow their end of the bargain as well. You go well out of your way for them! You meet the person, do the favour, they say they will do so and so in return to show, within the next day to show their appreciation. They act so grateful and thankful for your time. And what do they do? They completely fall off the face of the earth after. You try getting a hold of them the next day and nothing. They dont bother returning your email or phone call. Stuff like this makes me irrate!
Stuff like this pisses me off like you wouldnt believe. Im a blunt person and so many times call for it where I just want to give them a piece of my mind after. But I just never have the right scenario for it. WOrk related, forget it...it will do much more harm than good. I think the reason why I get so worked up and pissed off from this is simply because they took advantage of your kindness and that is obviously not a feeling that sits well in me. Im the type where i usually like to have the last say if i can. And trust me, if I have the oppurtunity, I can be an absolute *****!
What do you guys think? Do you react like how i do? I know some will just blow it off and not let it bother them, but not me.
They come to you (since I rarely ask people of favours), literally begging you for a favour...and to drop everything you have going on in that moment to do them a favour because its so urgent!!! It cant wait a whole day! Puhleez! You say you can do it, but not today, cause you just cant...how about tommorow. Then they pout and whine like a big phoney literally begging you to do everything you can to do them this favour when they want you to. They sound so desperate, they blab on about all this utter BS and how they will return the favour with this the next day etc.
So you take the time to accomodate their needs into your schedule and rearrange your schedule the next day to help them out, cause you trust them to at the very least follow their end of the bargain as well. You go well out of your way for them! You meet the person, do the favour, they say they will do so and so in return to show, within the next day to show their appreciation. They act so grateful and thankful for your time. And what do they do? They completely fall off the face of the earth after. You try getting a hold of them the next day and nothing. They dont bother returning your email or phone call. Stuff like this makes me irrate!
Stuff like this pisses me off like you wouldnt believe. Im a blunt person and so many times call for it where I just want to give them a piece of my mind after. But I just never have the right scenario for it. WOrk related, forget it...it will do much more harm than good. I think the reason why I get so worked up and pissed off from this is simply because they took advantage of your kindness and that is obviously not a feeling that sits well in me. Im the type where i usually like to have the last say if i can. And trust me, if I have the oppurtunity, I can be an absolute *****!
What do you guys think? Do you react like how i do? I know some will just blow it off and not let it bother them, but not me.
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