How to add "find my" to open notification slide-out

[rtparies]

Hello,
A feature i used daily seems to be gone after upgrading to catalina

i have always added find my friends to the open notification slide-out

after the upgrade it is gone(which is expected because it is now "find my".

I click the edit button for "open notification" and it is not listed as one of the available items

Any suggestions, or is this feature just gone??