im using ichat and my friend is using aim on a pc and i want to use the video chat feature and when i send a request it says they decline it and vice versa. Anyone know how to fix this without using another program like msn or skype?
I had the same problem too. Ultimately, it never got resolved (friend ended up getting a mac, so that's not really a resolution). In that time, however, I found Skype to be very usable and fitted my needs perfectly.