Has anyone figured out a way to keep iChat from being not-idle when you are using your computer but NOT using iChat. I really don't like the way it shows that I am around when I'm not using iChat. I get messages when I need to be getting stuff done, and I feel rude ignoring people. Now I could put up an away message, but I usually forget and then I'm suddenly stuck with someone IMing me and if I put up an away message than I am DEFINITELY ignoring them
I liked the way AIM did it. It was idle as long as you weren't using the application.