Is there a way to auto accept IM's from people on your buddy list with iChat like you can with AIM? It's annoying have to click accept for every single chat.
don't use 3rd party mess! iChat has applescript for iChat events.
Go into iChat -> Preferences -> Alerts
Select the Event "Incoming File Transfer"
Tick "Run an AppleScript script".
Select "Auto Accept.applescript" from the drop-down-menu.