ichat question

[slug420]

When using AIM, whenever someone new IMs me - even if they are on my buddy list, i see one message in the window, and have to click "Accept" to see all the rest of the messages they have sent....im not sure if this only happens when I am idle or away or what but...how do I get it to just not have that accept button at all.

 

[ryanmcd02]

You cannot do this through any of the iChat options that I have found.

I would assume rather than deal with people complaining about 'perverts' and the like being able to message them, the designers of iChat made it impossible for someone to verbally assault you without your permission.