Yes, it's very odd. The file is not in the applications folder. Another strange thing that happened is that after the file had finished downloading (I initiated the download from the Software Update window), I clicked "Upgrade Now". Then instead of seeing the regular window saying "To set up the installation of macOS Ventura, click Continue", the computer just restarted, showing the black screen with the apple logo. Since I didn't want to upgrade right then, I rebooted the computer and luckily was able to start up Monterey again. Then I went to the App store and downloaded the file again. At the end of the downloading, I got a message saying "Installation failed. An error occurred while installing the selected updates". And now the Software Update window just shows the 'Upgrade Now' button again. And I'm afraid to click on it since the last time I did it, The upgrade started immediately without the 'click Continue' choice.That's odd. It's supposed to. Are you 100% sure you didn't overlook it? I'm bad about that sometimes (even in stores, I'll gloss right over the product I'm lookin for 10 times, lol!). If so, then I guess try downloading it again and/or try it on another Mac if you have another available.
1. softwareupdate --list-full-installersHow can I get the installer file for macOS ventura? After downloading the update, the file does not appear in the applications folder like with previous versions.