Need some direction with parallels. I downloaded the trial version and ran the install as per the instructions. When it creates the VM, and I click on the icon in my dashboard, it takes FOREVER for the windows to come up. I was hoping for a simple "click and see". For example, if I'm in Mac, and want to sync my Blackberry in windows, (MUCH better desktop manager) its actually faster for me to restart in windows and wait for that to boot up. What am I doing wrong?