After trying my in-ears out with my new 3GS today, I'm not sure. The volume control now works, which is great. However, using voice control seems to somehow 'confuse' everything. Repeated clicks to activate voice control intermittently renders the microphone dead, and other times it makes the volume controls stop working.
Can anyone else with a pair have a play around and see if they get the same thing?
I note that Apple have not changed the compatibility information for the in-ears on the website. Maybe they're not fully compatible?