I’m having a rough time recently managing my AirPod Pros. Even though I mostly use them with my iPhone they always connect to my iMac (2017 27” with Ventura 13.2.1) first. So I have to manually connect them on my phone. If I go to the Bluetooth settings on the Mac and “forget device” they are also forgotten on my phone. I’ve been through the settings but maybe I’m missing something.