I just started using this cool feature. I started with a male friend, and there seem to be way too many suggestions for me to go through (most of them are actually female's faces). The default selection is "this is Gary" but I'd rather it be "this is not Gary" because most of them aren't. Can I change the default, and is it normal to get way more suggestions for Gary than I think I should get? Thanks for the info in advance (I'm new at this).