I agree with you in most ways, but I do agree that they made the decision to go and continue in this business. They get paid millions to make movies, but also to "be" famous. If they didn't get any attention, they wouldn't be paid so much.
It is a trade-off, and we know what her choice is.......to make marketable movies and stay famous. So while I feel sorry for her that she doesn't have as much privacy as I do, she does ask for it, in a way. I know that some people will argue that she chose acting because she loves it
*cough*, and maybe she didn't "choose" to be famous, but if she loved the acting part of the job so much and wanted to maintain privacy, she could make very small movies that don't get her much attention, or act in shows and stage productions. She has enough money already.
But lets see what choice she makes.