iPhone Lock screen notification order??

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Every since updating to iOS 13 the order of my lock screen notifications has been driving me nuts. I always use my Reminders app for everything, so they’re always up on my lock screen. If I get new iMessages, they go to the very bottom of the list of notifications on lock screen, under any Reminders/Instagram/mail/etc notifications. If I have enough Reminders notifications on my lock screen I won’t even see new message notifications unless I scroll on my lock screen. The ONLY solution I’ve found is to turn off Reminders app notifications but I use them for everything. Is there any way to make it that my Messages notifications go to the top of my lock screen list?! Help