Apple is currently taking the stance that the only Mac that should boot with a 64-bit Kernel is the Xserve. Not even the Mac Pro or MacBook Pro where more users would benefit from a 64-bit Kernel get it enabled by default.
On the MacBook line, Apple intentionally disables Snow Leopard booting with a 64-bit Kernel. Apple's view has always been that consumer level devices do not support 64-bit fully (although this is an artificial limitation).
Apple intentionally restricts its drivers for Boot Camp so that they will not install on 64-bit Windows (without some tweaking) if you own a MacBook or similar desktop Mac.
Whether you should go 64-bit or not (and that's been hotly debated), I think it is now unlikely that Apple will support the 64-bit Kernel on your MacBook or my MacBook.
It's possible that 10.7 will only work on 64-bit Intel Macs (and as such they'd need to enable the 64-bit Kernel on all of them), but I have no idea when 10.7 will be out or if it will actually run on these computers.