Dear all, can anyone kindly explain to me why does the activity monitor tell me I'm using 5.78GB of memory when if I add them up they amount to less than 2GB?! I have a rMBP 13'' and I've had this problem even with Mountain Lion and never seemed to understand why. 
Also, when I use Safari, I get a dozen "Safari Web Content" processes that hog the memory (when I use Chrome I get "Web Rendering" processes). I don't understand exactly why.
And lastly, I was very happy to upgrade to the rMBP last year specifically to use it for airplay mirroring, but it seems to me that the processor (2.9Ghz Core i7) isn't fast enough or the 8GB memory isn't enough to handle the airplay mirroring, so it keeps lagging when mirroring even when I don't have any application open other than a movie using VLC and it gets really annoying especially when the movie just keeps lagging and cutting off... Could it be the processor or the memory? It's a shame I can't upgrade the RAM since the rMBP's RAM are bolted into the motherboard.
Thank you
Also, when I use Safari, I get a dozen "Safari Web Content" processes that hog the memory (when I use Chrome I get "Web Rendering" processes). I don't understand exactly why.
And lastly, I was very happy to upgrade to the rMBP last year specifically to use it for airplay mirroring, but it seems to me that the processor (2.9Ghz Core i7) isn't fast enough or the 8GB memory isn't enough to handle the airplay mirroring, so it keeps lagging when mirroring even when I don't have any application open other than a movie using VLC and it gets really annoying especially when the movie just keeps lagging and cutting off... Could it be the processor or the memory? It's a shame I can't upgrade the RAM since the rMBP's RAM are bolted into the motherboard.
Thank you