Is there another software that is more user friendly than FCE that I can make 'professional' looking videos to put on youtube, etc...???
I would second the opinion that the way via iMovie and, if you like it, FCPX might be a good one. The new Final Cut Pro, as much bashing as it gets, is an awesome software, especially if you are not yet used to the ways of older FCP and FCE versions.
However, and I can not stress this enough: A "professional" looking video will gain much more from nice lighting and well captured sound (and of course from good editing) than from a "professional" editing software. You can edit a very, very good piece of art in iMovie and you can produce the most amateur crap (sorry for the wording) in Avid Media Composer. A professional software will mostly benefit your workflow and speed and will allow you to do some very specific things that you can't in simpler versions.
So, I would recommend you: Check out iMovie, it's a decent piece of software. If you want to spend money, first invest on some lighting and maybe a microphone. Try to make your movie "look good" and learn good editing in the process.
If you (and only then) start exploring the outer borders of iMovie, and realize that you want something the software just can't do, or if you start cutting a lot and want a more flexible application, you can start looking at FCPX. The transition will be easy.
In my opinion, people think way too often that a nice editing software will improve your movies. It will not, not even one bit. Your movies will get better with other stuff, and the quality of the editing software will only influence your life and work as an editor.
That being said: If FCE was too confusing for you, don't bother with Avid or Adobe! Try iMovie as a start and maybe FCPX (Oh yes, the interface is much simpler for beginners than FCE)...