Man, that stinks about the pain. Hang in there. I fell and damaged the cartilage in my wrist and the tendons that control the up and down movement of my hand were torn in half and they had to be pulled down from up in my forearm. I have had two surgeries to repair the damage and to attempt to get my hand to move. No luck. I am in constant pain and don't sleep that much anymore. I am told the fusion will ease the pain, but I will lose all movement of my wrist/hand. My fingers will still work but very limited. At this point I haven't been able to move my wrist in over a year so the fusion will leave me in in the same shape I am in now. Thanks for advice on being put to sleep for the surgery. The first surgery I was put to sleep and the second one I wasn't. I will definitely be out cold for this next one.
Good luck with your recovery and rehab.