OP wrote:
"I aslo have a drive with Big Sur. It wont boot to that one either. Maybe Im doing something wrong?"
Yes.
You're trying to boot with an OS
that's simply TOO OLD.
The ONLY OS that boots the new MBP's is Monterey.
Got it?
Having said that,
please keep reading.
If it's iTunes you like, you don't have to give up iTunes with Monterey.
There's a free utility app out there called "Retroactive"
Download it here:
Retroactive has been discontinued. You should transition from Retroactive to supported apps such as Music, iTunes for Windows, iMazing, Photos, Darktable, Lightroom Classic, and DaVinci Resolve. - ...
github.com
(scroll down a little to see the download button and instructions on how to use it).
What Retroactive does:
It will download and "patch" iTunes to work with Monterey.
You can keep using it, just as before.
You'll need to move your iTunes music folder to the new MBP...