There is definitely a firewire port (4-pin) which is probably labeled either as i.Link or DV. Just plug it in to your mac and you should be good to go.
The i.Link port on your camera is a 4-pin firewire, and your mac has a 6-pin. You need to get a 4-pin to 6-pin firewire cable (like this). Plug the 4-pin side into your camera and the 6-pin side into the firewire port on the right side of your macbook pro.
The Port Is Inside The Drop Down Door Below The Swing Out Screen-Memory Stick Area
Don't you have a manual? The port is the one next to the BLUE LANC port second from the front. It's clearly labeled HDV/DV with an "i" to the left of it.