i did an extensive search to try and resolve this problem. If you have any info that could help, please please please respond this is driving me crazy!
there are 2 ibooks and a nokia 3650 involved in this problem.
ibook#1 and nokia3650 are paired. they sync via isync without incident. nokia displays names in contact list as "first last"
ibook#2 sends ibook#1 16 address cards via bluetooth and "send cards" feature in Address Book
ibook#1 - newly recieved vcf files found in user's "documents" folder. drag vcf files to Address Book icon in the dock. Adds 16 address cards to Address Book which display normally in the Address Book program
ibook#1 used again with iSync. The 16 new names are now displayed in the Nokia3650 as "Last, First" all other names are unchanged and remain "First Last"
UGGGH! Help!

thank you thank you thank you
aaron
there are 2 ibooks and a nokia 3650 involved in this problem.
ibook#1 and nokia3650 are paired. they sync via isync without incident. nokia displays names in contact list as "first last"
ibook#2 sends ibook#1 16 address cards via bluetooth and "send cards" feature in Address Book
ibook#1 - newly recieved vcf files found in user's "documents" folder. drag vcf files to Address Book icon in the dock. Adds 16 address cards to Address Book which display normally in the Address Book program
ibook#1 used again with iSync. The 16 new names are now displayed in the Nokia3650 as "Last, First" all other names are unchanged and remain "First Last"
UGGGH! Help!
thank you thank you thank you
aaron