I disagree with putting the SSD into the optibay... I've done quite some research on this and basically you can never reach your SSD's potential if you put it in the optibay (because it's SATA 2 as opposed to the main HDD bay, where you can get 6G speeds), so I'll definitely put it in the main HDD bay. I believe 17" MBPs had some trouble with SATA 3, but I have a 15" MBP so it should be fine in the main HDD bay - and my SSD is 6G, so it would definitely run slower in the optibay.
So you say it wouldn't be detrimental for my SSD if I kept both OS X and Bootcamp partitions on it?
Although I would obviously try to keep as much as possible or at least the most often used stuff on the SSD
What stuff would that include?