"So despite the fact that there are two physical drives, theres no way to spilt them with 100% functionality? (Be able to use disk utility, and maintain a recovery partition)"
I believe the problem is that once you "split" the fusion drive into two separate drives, if you run the recovery partition, and launch Disk Utility, it's going to assume that the two separate drives should actually be a "fusion drive" -- and then attempt to re-create the fusion drive automatically.
In doing so, it will wipe out the data on BOTH drives.
The workaround is to NEVER run Disk Utility from the recovery partition, unless you want the above sequence of events to happen. (Aside: you _can_ run the copy of DU that's on your SSD, assuming you retain that as your boot drive)
That doesn't mean that you can't split the drives.
However, you probably need to create a "second boot volume" somewhere (so you can run DU and "aim it" at your internal SSD now and then).
Others may disagree, but I'd recommend that you create an "alternate boot partition" as the first partition on your internal HDD. You can use either CarbonCopyCloner or SuperDuper to regularly backup the contents of the SSD to the boot partition on the HDD. Then use the remaining partition on the HDD for whatever you wish.