Actually all the inspirons that don't use shared memory have video cards that are separate from the motherboard inside the laptop. They've been that way for a while now. You can upgrade the video card providing the form factor of the laptop is the same. It all depends on what video cards dell offers with what laptop (i.e. a 600m video card would probably not fit in a 8600). But, it's definately possible. They don't advertise it but you have to call up dell spare parts and order one from them.
Before I had my powerbook I had a dell inspiron 8100. The dell inspiron 8200 was released with the same form factor, so the video card was the same size allowing it to fit in the laptop. When the 8100 was released, the only card you could get was the Geforce 2 Go. The 8200 gave the option of the Radeon 9000. So I ordered a Radeon 9000 from dell spare parts, opened up my laptop, replaced the Geforce 2 Go, and bam, it worked perfectly.
Check out the dell inspiron video discussion forum if you don't believe me. They talk about this stuff ALL the time there.
So, if the form factor is the same and multiple cards are offered for the same system, then it IS possible. But dell doesn't like to advertise it.