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I'm not sure I follow exactly. Are you referring to the little balloon that indicates when you have an unread text message? If so, the only way to remove that alert is to read the message... Unless you're jailbroken, then you can do all sorts of tom-foolery...
 
yes, the little ballon that indicates when you have an unread text message

and yes, my iPhone is jailbraked
 
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