There’s a reason it’s not yet a public beta, though for me it’s actually been really quite stable so far. All the things that broke for you; did you report it to Apple with Feedback Assistant?
The speed of restoring a time machine backup greatly depends on how fast the drive you back up to is. If it’s a spinning drive on the network That number is not unrealistic, no. I have a 1TB backup on a spinning drive on the network and I expect pulling it all would take about 2 days.