Hmm. I run LR on an riMac and it does as well, if not better, than the 4770k Mac Pro it replaced overall. And not just me; take a look here:
http://www.dpreview.com/forums/post/54648416
Some folks do a lot of photo editing IN LR. I don't. LR does exhibit some stepping when using say "exposure" in the develop module; it is a bit less pronounced if I am viewing the image on the 2560x1440 monitor I also use. If I use a graphics program to do the same thing, I can also get slow redraws with some. Others don't even show intermediate transitions with a slider but wait until you stop, and those don't usually show any ill effects. Photoshop is similar; some steppiness if you drag a slider for say exposure back and forth.
But I tend to apply stuff all at once, and it seems really quick when I do that, like enter a value, or just click a spot on the slider.
MacPhun's Pro applications seem to run the smoothest.
What you can see is that it seems to be a bit application dependent. And my old machine had some issues as well. I use a maxed 4.0GHz295 riMac, BTW. I haven't tried just running in full 5k as opposed to "best for display" either.
So at the end of the day you are either gonna go with a nMP perhaps, and a screen that doesn't have the resolution. Maybe they aren't seeing the issues (and that word even seems to exaggerate what is really not an issue for me).
I think that having the higher resolution screen trumps ALL that. By a HUGE margin. I can move an image to a 2560x1440, but then I have to do more stuff to view it, and it ends up slowing me down FAR more than doing the same operations on the 5k screen.
Here are some tests, however, that focus more on non-editing tasks:
http://www.tony-hart.com/blog/essays/2014/10/imac-with-retina-5k/
It again deserves mention that Yosemite, Lightroom and the machine are all variables. Yosemite, eg, apparently clips some blacks. I say that to point out that not all of what I've seen so far is down to the hardware.
As far as other differences, the color gamut is a bit larger with the riMac. I think it has better anti-glare, and mine just seems better in terms of even brightness, lack of bleed, and contrast than my 2560x1440 and previous iMac 2010. But that's really subjective.