Thank you guys, for your responses. So, here's the deal, what I didn't realize last night. The iPhoto album is created on my iMac and it transfers to the sd card in the exact order that I want them. So the pictures are perfect on the card. As a test, I went to put the card in my Macbook and when the pictures upload into to iPhoto, they import out of order. So, when I put this card into my sister Mac Mini, it will do the same thing in iPhoto. I just want iPhoto to import the pictures in the order they're in on the card. The slideshow scrapbook option in iPhoto is perfect, which why I want to use it. And I'm definitely not taking my iMac to my sisters house.
My gripe about this is also when the time comes to change to a new Mac. I spend all my time organizing all my photos in iPhoto, on my iMac the way that I want. But then when I transfer to my Macbook or new Mac when the time comes, they'll just all save out of order in iPhoto and then I have reorganize them all over again. That can't be right? There has to be an easier way to do this... I just don't get it