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I believe there is an option in gmail
under Settings-> Accounts
there is a "send mail as" option

I use fastmail imap to receive my incoming mail from fastmail but when outgoing i use the gmail smpt but i set gmail to send as my fastmail acct. The recipient will reply to fastmail rather than gmail. I hope this helps.
 
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