With a MacBook you have limited choices for getting the footage onto your system - but in any ever, do NOT put the mini-DVD disc into a slot load DVD drive ... ever.
You could connect the camcorder's analog outputs to a qualified DV device (DV camcorder, VTR or converter), then connect the DV device to your MacBook via Firewire. In FCP, set Device Control to "Non-Controllable Device" and use Capture Now.
Or, connect an external DVD drive (tray loading) to your MacBook and transfer the DVD's files to your hard drive. Next, use MPEG Streamclip (or other program) to convert the DVD's VOB files to a format that matches your NLE program's needs. If you're using iMovie, convert to .dv. If you're using FCE or FCP, then convert to whatever format matches your Sequence settings - for example, if your Sequence is set for DV/DVCPro NTSC, then use MPEG Streamclip to convert the files to match that.
-DH